Miles today: 18.6
Total miles: 833.3
Blondie and I were spoiled once again this morning. We woke up and John cooked us pancakes. We also had coffee, orange juice, and cereal. It’s weird–sometimes I just crave the ordinary, mundane parts of life off the trail. Like being able to make a cup of coffee in the morning. Or simply having the OPTION to make pancakes if I wanted. It was nice to get up and feel like it was a normal Saturday morning–having breakfast and then going out for a walk.
John and Susan drove us to the trail head around 10 am for a late start to our day. Our goal was to get to Vernon NJ today where we’d go into town and resupply. The trail was really easy and largely flat today and the weather was cooler which I was happy about.
I had possibly the weirdest encounter I’ve had yet on the trail this morning. I was passing a man who was maybe about 70 out for a day hike. He asked if I was thru hiking and when I said yes he responded with “I’m proud of you! You don’t see many female hikers out here.” I thanked him and we chatted about the trail and the many different hikes he’s been on. He then returned to the female thing and said something to the effect of “If I could be born again I’d want to be born female so I could experience the trail like you”. A somewhat weird thing to say. I simply was like… “yeah…..I’m sure it’s a different experience.” Then things got even weirder when he started talking about having a feminine side. Then he said he sometimes feels like he is a female born in a male’s body. During all this I was politely nodding and trying my best to maintain a facial expression that was nonjudgmental as I wondered why a person I’d met three minutes before was confessing so much personal information to me. He then declared “I’m a cross dresser” and I think I stupidly said something like “oh, nice”. Then he told me he was currently wearing pink panties and I was just so shocked he said that I don’t even know how I reacted. As I stood shocked and for some reason still trying to be polite, he told me about how his feminine name is Justine and in the winter he wears bras and nylon stockings. He repeated several times that he is now more open about cross dressing, indicating that in the past he’d been ashamed and so I didn’t want to shut him down but I had heard enough about his undergarment choices for the morning. It was before 11am for goodness sake! Soon after I told him I had to go catch up with my friend and made my escape. Oh my gosh, what a weird experience. I don’t think he was trying to make me uncomforatable or be creepy, but at the same time he definitely overshared. In retrospect I wish I’d said something about how I am glad he’s so open about his clothing choices but did not need to hear about a stranger’s choice of undergarments ever. In the moment I was just so shocked that I probably said “oh cool” and “oh nice” twenty times. Well now if I encounter another cross dresser oversharer, I am prepared.
We had lunch on Prospect Rock, the highest point of the AT in New York with beautiful views of a nearby lake and surrounding mountains. I got to talk to Neon during lunch and hear about her last few weeks in Maine and her summit and ensuing hitchhiking adventure back to CT. Right after lunch we crossed the border into New Jersey–state number 7! It’s nice to have all these state borders to cross, making the progress more tangible. However, once we cross into PA it’ll be a while before I see another state border.
The rest of the day was fine, we made decent time. The day ended with a long downhill to the road into Vernon, which my knees were very unhappy about. I was relieved to be done walking once I got through that downhill. Blondie and I easily caught a hitch into town and got dropped off at St Thomas Episcopal Church, which allows hikers to stay for free in their basement. They also have a shower and laundry but we could not for the life of us find out where! There were signs that shower and laundry were located off near the kitchen, but we walked probably ten laps around the basement and still couldnt find it. We decided to go get food as it was already 6 o’clock and figure it out later.
We went to Burger King to find Delta there. He challenged us to beat his $13.50 total of food. Blondie did (see earlier post for pictures of his disgustingness). I did not beat the total but did eat a ton. We returned to the church where a volunteer showed us a secret door we thought was a fire exit but actually contained the shower and laundry. We took scalding hot showers–my SECOND in TWO days. THIS IS SO NOTEWORTHY. I felt so clean. We then watched Independence Day on VHS on their tv only to pause mid-movie to go back to BK for seconds. We are gross. I could write every blog post about how we think about food and eat food all the time. We went to bed happy to be out of the rain that was falling outside as we slept.