I asked my dad to write a quick blurb about his thoughts on me hiking as a fun guest post (and to judge if he thinks I’m crazy for doing this). Little did I know he’d reply with this tearjerker. I am beyond lucky and grateful to have such a supportive dad.
You’re going to do WHAT!!
It seems like a faint echo from a long time ago when Julie said, “I think I’ll try walking the Appalachian Trail”. Like any good parent, I didn’t say “no” or object. I just simply acknowledged the remark – hoping that this was just a passing fancy and that she would change her mind. Not surprisingly, that hasn’t happened. The echo from months ago has grown louder and louder as we moved from winter through spring and into early summer. Now, we are only a few days away from when Julie will leave on her (and our) life changing adventure. As her father, I know I should be strong and supportive and I want to be, but I’m scared beyond words. That said – I’m bursting with pride about Julie’s decision. Her inner strength and determination to take this fork in the road is certain to lead down a long path of unexpected difficulties and challenges. Few of us risk taking that path in life. It’s usually much easier to “follow the crowd”, do what everyone expects, or let circumstances determine our next steps. But, that’s not Julie.
Julie is a person that never fails to surprise and amaze me with her perspective and unique ability to not only set very high and often non-traditional goals, but then to go out and achieve them. In high school it would have been easy for her to earn a little money working in town and hanging out with her friends, but she chose to work as an unpaid research intern at a Boston hospital where she helped to create an online Motivational Enhancement Therapy program for at-risk teens. In college, she could have had a semester studying abroad in one of the world’s hot spots for college students, but she chose Nepal, a very poor country where she had to learn the Nepalese language and to adjust to being without such “basic” essentials as reliable electricity. During her last summer break before her senior year in college, she could have taken a job anywhere, but elected to go to Tennessee to work as a counselor for youth with aggression and behavioral problems. So, I guess it shouldn’t come as any surprise to me or anyone else that Julie is now about to undertake a new challenge: The Appalachian Trail
One can only imagine what it must be like to be out in the Appalachian Trail wilderness for months on end relying solely on willpower and physical stamina to trudge forward day-after-day, step-by step, over relentless miles of rugged terrain. Few of us would be willing to survive on the limited food supplies in our backpack, or the need to pitch a tent or to find a shelter in order to be able to sleep every night. Even fewer (I head this list) would want to endure or cope with the elements of rain, wind, heat, cold, and to deal with the certainty of blisters, wet clothes, and the lack of any human conveniences. For Julie, it’s these very challenges that motivate her. Conquering the fear and obstacles and doing it in her on her own way is part of what drives her.
Like I said at the beginning, I’m really nervous and scared to death for Julie’s safety and well-being, but I have complete trust and confidence in her judgment and I support her determination to move forward. And whether she completes 100, 1,000, or the entire 2,000+ miles of The Appalachian Trail, my positive thoughts and unending love will be with her to help cushion her every step along the way.